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How Menopause Impacts Sexual Functioning
There is no such thing as “too old for sex.” Menopause does not signal the end of sexual pleasure—it simply marks a new chapter. With...
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May 113 min read
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6 Ways to Jumpstart Healing from Sexual Trauma
1. Believe Yourself I don’t know if it counts as trauma. Other people have had it so much worse than me. I feel like I’m just being...
esmevalette
Apr 95 min read
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Understanding Trauma and How to Heal
Trauma is not defined by the event itself, but by the impact of the event . What traumatizes one person may not affect another in the...
esmevalette
Dec 17, 20245 min read
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Should Initiating Sex be 50-50?
Initiating sex does NOT need to be 50-50 in a relationship and it’s unrealistic to expect it to be. Here’s why: In most relationships,...
esmevalette
Aug 12, 20242 min read
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