Becoming a Sex Therapist

Sexuality is a core part of who we are and yet, it is often ridden with shame, guilt, negativity and confusion.

Our sexual selves are complex and messy, colored by our entire human experience—including our traumas, our fears, and our capacity for playfulness, creativity, imagination, and connection. Could there be a more fertile landscape for self-exploration and healing?

I decided to pursue a sex therapy certification because I wanted the tools, knowledge, and experience necessary to help my clients explore and heal the vast complexity of their sexual selves.

There is no national board of sex therapy, so there are many ways to become a certified sex therapist. You could technically earn this title in one weekend. But I wasn’t just interested in the title or the piece of paper… which is why I chose one of the most comprehensive programs I could find.

Becoming a certified sex therapist through the @sexualhealthalliance was basically like getting another master’s degree. It involved completing 200+ hours of course material, attending live conferences, a weekend “Sexual Attitude Reassessment,” over 45 hours of supervision, and a capstone project. The program was not just about acquiring knowledge, but also about examining the way that my own biases, assumptions, and values impact the way that I see sex and sexuality.

I’m incredibly grateful for the opportunity to have participated in this program. A big thank you to everyone who supported me along the way, including you. Your presence and engagement with my content mean more than you may realize. If you have any questions about sex, sexuality, or the journey to becoming a sex therapist, please don’t hesitate to reach out.